who the hell told to ask her out while being drunk or smoking ganja are they out of their minds .. Lion be yourself .. dont try to be some one your not..

Namaste.

I was telling him to not do it drunk. Seeing as when you're drunk you aren't fully in control of your thoughts and actions.

It's different with ganja. You're perfectly under control when you're medicated. If you read my post, you'll see that I'm not telling him to ask her out high, but that it is a better option to alcohol as you won't mess up as you would with alcohol.

Lion buddy, it looks like you've fallen in really deep over the years. What's sad is that she doesn't even know about it much. Remember that there are always two possibilities: 1) you get the girl, 2) you don't. Regardless, neither of the two will happen and you will remain in limbo unless you let her know the truth.

If she likes you, then you better treat her well and make sure things go down the right way. Do NOT take advice from movies and books; they are just so sandboxed. In the end, you'll look back and think what kind of a fool u were . Think about your differences as much as you think of your likes. Understand the gaps and see if she will accept you for who you are and not what you are. If she doesn't then she loses out on someone with a golden heart. You say she's abroad. Think whether you'll see her often. What will your future be like? What will her future be like? Would you not only hurt yourself, but her as well if this doesn't go down right?

Think of everything before you make your mind up about what you are going to expect from her. I don't mean to sound negative, but I have gone through enough hell and put others close to me through hell in my past so I know what I am talking about. Think long term mate. Don't give in to darned hormonal rushes. Make sure you have that parachute before you completely fall head over heels. Being down a one way street is not a funny place to be and can take years for you to recover.

Don't think of this as a situation to just make her smile one last time before you let go completely. What you are looking for now is an encore and it is very typical in such a situation. However, remember the human heart wants more and more. It is one greedy ass thing and one encore turns into wanting another just one more time. And another and so on until you both end up sufferring to kingdom come. Love knows no bounds, but that is why people need to use their brains as a guide while following their hearts.

'tis a sad and sweet story you've mentioned buddy, but remember that the book of life doesn't center around one rosy looking page. It may be your favourite page, but you will love your book only if you loved all those pages together. My advice: think again before you talk to her, but do talk to her at least as a friend.

P.S: don't be too hard on yourself. You're a great guy and I'm not just saying that. Goog luck with whatever you choose, buddy.

very well put, scrin, amen.

go for it lion.
ask her to spend the day with you.
you dont want to go on with your life later on asking yourself what if?
live your life with no regrets
if its meant to be it will happen
and if she is as nice and awesome as you say she is, she will realise how much of a damn nice person you are
if things dont work out, there will be a point where you will meet someone else that'll make you as happy as she did so dont worry.

wish you the best lion
everyones behind you bro
takecare

Follow ur Heart bro....be brave and do the needful at the end what ever the outcome you can be happy cz u gave a good try  

Wish you all the best bro

Lion-Kolla, ma brother from another mother...

Let me just give you a quick rap of what I have to say

You will lose nothing by acting on your feelings my friend.
And if she says No.
Then don't lose hope bro.
There are more women in this world than men
for realz
and you will find someone who makes your heart
erupt with joy.

I am here for you.

And so is my unicorn.

              oh man you can't feel stupid about you. how can a person be stupid if he thinks like that! He's the luckiest person in the world and his girl will be the luckiest girl ever IMO. Make confidence and be strong. Rich or poor doesnt mean a shit. It's thoughts and living that makes your life happy and joyful.

I wish I could be like you and think like you. You're a legend Lion

Dedicate This song to  my loving friend Lion   

Touching story Lion, all the best for you bro... I hope that your dream will come true! Nevertheless, I've been going through some similar situation myself, but just keeping on faith that something good will happen as always... So don't loose hope, just do what you feel what's right, then the world you know will be right... Thanks for sharing this with us, you are a LION inside!

you'l hav her lion brother...!! shes yours!
we a here 4 u!!

PM'd on FB...

Wasim suggested this for you Lion Brother

Lion ma mate, Its now or never mate, just use all the resources u can, talk to her , try to make her feel how much u miss her and why shes soo special to u. Time for you switch to Offensive maneuvers son.
Good luck! and I pray she mustn't miss someone like u in her life.
Peace and love.

Machan LiON Im in the same position... Theres a girl in my class that I really like but I cant make up my mind to talk to her But after seeing all this I think I will go for it and give it a shot and see whether Im worthy of her love. Finally all the best og luck LioN get that LioN-KeLLE shes yours

Unknown, I think your situation is a lot better than Lions. If you haven't noticed, this girl was in an international school, is studying at an IVY league university, and is basically on the other side of the world.